Menshouldarrywhentheyareyoung,andwonshouldarrywhentheyareyoung.Thishasbeenanunggprciplesttis.Althoughitisnowadvocatedtogectosandengagenewweddgs,paredtothe1960sand1970s,ithasbeeorexurioandthesiplectosofpeoplenolongerexist.IafroZhuzhou,HunaalkabouttheweddgctosZhuzhou.

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Matchakerestoproposearriage

Whennandwonreachtheagee,theirparentsfirstfdaatchaker.Whechakerdisversthatthereissooneofappropriateagethefaily,theyfirstunicatewiththeirparentsandthenscheduleadateteablddatelocation,uallyaarketpce.Onthedayofthearket,boththeanandthewoangotothedesignatedlocation,takealookateachother,sayafewwords,andshowtheircheerfulpersonalityonthespot.Generally,theywillreturnhoandtalktotheatchaker.Afteragreeg,theanwillchooseadatefagent(wecallitDgshithere).Thereisalsoatypethatisfavoredbyoneselforbyparents,suchass.Iftheyarereted,parentswillentrtanacquataoactasaatchaker.Inthe1960sand1970s,anysgotarriedruralareas,andthethirdrepresentativeofsiblgsgettgarriedwasore.Thisiscalled"newretivesgettgarriedwitholdretives",whichisevenorejoyful,butthiskdofcloseretivesgettgarriedisstillnotgood.

Theerequiresfourkdsofgifts,thatis,afewpiecesofcloth.Detfailieswilledaanddafabriylonsocks,andthosewithpoorenoiditionswillekhakiclothandttonsocks.Inthisway,eveniftheeissuessful,theangotothewoan'shoandsendsogiftstothewoan'shofortheNewYearholiday.Generally,thefourkdsofgiftsarethesa,naly,theBegngofSurFestival,theDragonBoatFestival,theMid-AutuivalandtheSprgFestival.Meat,eggs,noodlesAndapieceoffabric,afterayearoro,whenbothpartieshavenoobjes,thewoantellstheatchakerthattheycuttheshoesaple(thatis,theantellsthewoanthesizeoftheshoeswornbyhisfaily).Theangivesthewoansooneyforcuttgthesaple,whichwasonlyafewtensofyuanatthatti.Thewoaoakeapairofshoesforeachberofthean'sfailyandatchthewithhand-ebroideredsoles.

Preparationbeforeandafterarriage

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Beforearriage,theangivesthewoansooobuyadowry.Dependgonthefaily'senoiditions,hegivethewoanthreetofivethoandyuanatonce,andregardlessofhowueyshereceivesfrothean,thesethgstbeallocated.ewardrobeorbationcabet,oable,fourchairs,oable,onefoodcabet,onewashbasrack,ewoodencases,onesallwoodencaseorleathercase(siirtothergertravelcaseatpresent),ohotwaterbottles,cupsandtoothbrhes,aupotsforboilgwater,pressureokerandotherdailyies,fourquiltsandapairofpillows.Thosewithgoodfailynditionswillbeequippedwithan'sbicycle,asegache,abdwhiteTVset,ari,etfaoatterhowueytheangivesthewoan,thewoan'sparentsbasicallydon'teuchoftheoney,andtheyreturnittotheirdaughtertoakentaeroney.

Whattheantprepare

Inadditiontogivgthewoanthreeorfivethoandyuan,theanonlyoprepareoneoronewhoesanddoesn'tcareaboutanythgelse.Ifthean'sfailyispoorandthereisnodowryforthewoan,thewoanwillalsallthedailyies.

Onthedaybeforearriage,theantpayagifttothewoan.Thegiftscde:halforonepig,chi,clothesorfabrics,shoesandsocksofthewoan'sparents,brothersandsisters.Allthgsshouldbeputpce.Abigrackshouldbeedtocarrythetothewoan,sothatthewoan'sonlookersknowwhat'sgatagforthefood,returotheantheday.

Thewoanshouldprepareasfollows

Putredpahips,eggs,dybiscuits,andclothes,shoesandsockswhenyouseethean'sparents,brothersandsistersthean'sside.Inaddition,theparentsalsoogivethedaughtersoboxoney(huothoandsdependgonthenditions).Beitent,Thepurposeistoseeifthewoanhasgivenenoughoneyforthentaer.

Onthedaybeforearriage,thewoanwillnotifytheanhoeoplewilletoliftthgstheday.Generally,eightororenarerequiredbecaethewoaoessionwasarrangedfortheantogotothewoan'shoetoweleher.Thenhadtogo,cdgthegroo,obrides(won),fivetosixgongsandbaltteas,andpeoplecarrygthgs.Theyallwenttothewoan'shoetohavebreakfasttogether,blogandpyg.Afterdhewoaofftheweddg,withoneanandowonseegoffthebride.Theprocessioncarrygthgstookastepfirst,andthenthegrooandbridefollowedwithubrels.Regardlessoftheweather,eachpersonhadanubrel,Blogagallthewaytotheanfornch.

Afterdheweddgseisalsotheostlivelysedurgarriage.Thepurposeistohelpthegrooandbrideeliatethefeelgofshyness.Varirastrytoaketheirbodyandskntact,suchasouthtooutheatgdates,opeoplelightgfirecrackers,kittensfishg,andashpickg.Theoretricks,thebetter.Noatterhowbigorsall,theyakeasuoiseastheywant.Afterthe1980s,thehabitofakgweddgsesgraduallygedtowatchgovies,videos,andsgg.

arriagethaterawasthesiplest,especiallyforofficeworkersandworkerswhoatethenationalfood,letaloneworryaboutanythg.Theyhadfreelove,andwhentheygotarried,theirunithadashareofthehoe.Theunitleaderswouldpersonallyholdtheweddgfortheyounguple,andafterarriage,theyoungupleslowlyadesofurniture.Unlikenow,hoestbeboughtbytheselves,andsopeoplewouldbeepropertysvesforalifeti.Thaterawastrulysocialist!

Later,withthedevelopntofsocietyandtheiproventofateriallivgstandards,betrothalgiftserged,startgwiththreeajorites:bicycles,watches,andsegaches.Later,itdevelopedtofourajorites,fiveajorites,andsoon,untilnow,Iwon'tsayuchaboutit.